Wednesday, August 27, 2025

Day 27 - Pray for Your Enemies

 



Dear Church,

Pray for your enemies.

A pastor is a shepherd, of a flock of people. What a privilege this is! I thank God, often, for calling Linda and me to be pastors.

But sometimes, one of the sheep bites. As a pastor, I have taken my share of abuse. I’ve been doing this since 1971, and I’ve got bite marks all over by soul. Here’s one story of a man who chomped on me.

I was in my fourth year at a church in the Chicago area. I was teaching a series, on Sunday evenings, on the book of Revelation. At one point we were looking at the Second Coming of Christ. When will this happen?

I was using Jack Hayford’s Spirit-Filled Life Bible. Jack did the footnotes. In a footnote relevant to the question, Jack presented nine possible theological views of when the second Coming might happen. I showed these to the class. I remember telling them that we need to be humble about this subject, because good Christians had differing views.

Little did I know that, as I talked about the nine possibilities, a man in the class was getting angrier and angrier. He believed there was only one view of the Second Coming, and it was his.

I have not forgotten what happened as the class ended. He was a big man, over six feet tall. He was much older than I. He approached me, bent down to my eye level. The veins in his neck were bulging. His face was red. He yelled. I was, he said, wrong, a heretic, and a false teacher. At a few points I thought he was going to hit me.

I was shaken.

As I drove home with Linda, I found myself hating him. I wanted to get even with him. Vengeance was mine, sayeth myself.

I could not pray without hurting him, somehow, at least in my mind.

He was an enemy that threatened me. He was a persecutor, of me. I could not, I chose not to, pray for him. And, making things harder, I was a lover of Jesus. I knew about what Jesus said in Luke 6:28 - Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. So God, how can I do this thing that you command me to do?

“Pray for your enemies,” my Lord Jesus says. Well, that’s easy for him to say, because he is Jesus. Not really, right? Jesus did it in the moment when hanging on that cross, as hatred assaulted him. In his darkest time, he prayed, “Forgive these people, for they don’t know what they are doing.”

How can I do Mark 11:25?

And when you stand praying,

 if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them,

so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”

Or Mark 5:44?

But I tell you, love your enemies

and pray for those who persecute you,

And what does Psalm 23 mean when it says,  

 

"You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.

You anoint my head with oil.

My cup overflows."

 While engaging with the 23rd Psalm, one of my seminary students received a God-insight I had never thought of before. God told him that, not only is the "prepared table" visible to one's enemies, but so is being anointed with oil and the overflowing cup. My cup, said my student, overflows onto my enemies!

 That sounded like a God-thought to me. I related it to my cry for a greater love, in me. Anyone, it says in the Bible, can love people who love them back. That’s easy. The real test is to love those who assault and endanger me.

Dear Beloved of God, there is a praying life that is deeper and wider and higher and longer, which includes praying for your enemies. I invite you to pray this with me: "God, let your love so shape and fill my heart that it overflows even to my enemies."

Pray for release. Pray for the freedom to love others as Christ loves them.

 Pray to receive this love for your own self.

 

Love…,

 

PJ

 

ASSIGNMENT

Pray for a love that, like the love of God, is higher, wider, deeper, and longer 

than any earthly love you have experienced. 


From my book 31 Letters to the Church on Praying.