|Ancient war helmets, Detroit Institute of Art|
Looks like someone took a spear in the forehead.
(This is for followers of Jesus. Because I see this happening everywhere, to include, sadly, in the Church. And note: it all speaks to me, as well. Perhaps I am writing this for my own instruction? To remind myself of The Standard? If so, I can accept that. On this I agree with Dallas Willard, who once confessed that he had not loved others enough. Me either.)
In Romans 12 we are told to not conform our hearts to the pattern of our culture. God's kingdom, as Jesus repeatedly demonstrated, is not of this world.
One of this world's patterns has always been harshness and disrespect. Especially when it comes to disagreement. Much of this is seen on social media. And it gets unloving and ugly.
And anti-Christlike. Followers of Jesus who descend into the ugly side of social media are conforming to the world's modus operandi.
The Jesus way, on the other hand, includes beliefs and attitudes such as...
Love your enemies, and pray for those who persecute you.
All the awesome spiritual gifts are nothing if you don't have love, as a heart attitude that leads to behavior.
Love is the greatest thing. Therefore, if you are on social media, be great.
Express your reasons for the hope you have, but always do it in gentleness and with respect.
Avoid the argumentative person. (Proverbs)
Speak the truth? Yes! But always in love!
If it has flesh and blood, it is not our real enemy. (Do not be sucked in by social media about this. On social media we see people fighting against people.)
When disagreeing, be patient with others, as you work to listen and understand them. (1 Cor. 13)
In disagreement, never dishonor others. (1 Cor. 13)
Remove your anger buttons. (1 Cor. 13)
Grow up spiritually, and put the ways of children behind you. (1 Cor. 13:11)
When in conflict and disagreement, see HERE for how to be both truthful and loving.
Remember that, contrary to much media, to disagree is not to hate.
If, when dialoguing and disagreeing, you fall into hatred, dishonor, and diminishment of the other, repent, and ask them for forgiveness. Do not do this on social media.
The superior conflict-discussing, understanding-and-forgiving environment is face-to-face. Phone conversation comes in second. Email and texting is a distant, inferior third. The worst way, the incendiary way, is on social media, for the world to see. True, that's more interesting and attention-getting. Which is part of our world's disease.
Finally, In Essentials Unity, in Nonessentials Liberty, and in All Things, Love. Read, again, 1 Corinthians 13. Apply.
(Maybe... one more suggestion... take some philosophy classes. In my experience these classes had much debate and disagreement, but done civilly. Because, in logic, ad hominem abusives are irrelevant to truth-seeking.)