Saturday, December 20, 2025

Search Me, O God

University of Michigan campus. "Angry Neptune," by Michele Oka Doner.

Search me, O God, and know my heart.
- Psalm 139:23

You have searched me, Lord, and you know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise;
You perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.
Before a word is on my tongue
You, Lord, know it completely.
You hem me in behind and before,
and you lay your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
too lofty for me to attain.

- Psalm 139:1-6

I have gone to quiet places and sat silently before God for countless hours, requesting God to search me and know me. I cannot know myself fully. I am easily deceived about my self, thinking I am one thing while I am another.

I know a young man who declared he was a girl. He has a sad history of being marginalized, even by his Christian brothers and sisters. Now he's getting lots of attention because he says he is really a woman. Is he? In his case, I doubt it. He has succumbed to the insipid toxins our identity-less culture exudes. He's looking to be loved. He has not gone deep enough. He is incapable of going deep enough. (To go deep into this young man's condition, begin here.)

I can relate to this dilemma. I am close to my self, yet so far. I, too, am incapable of going deep enough. Theistic philosopher Dallas Willard writes:

"The hidden dimension of each human life is not visible to others, nor is it fully graspable even by ourselves. We usually know very little about the things that move in our own soul, the deepest level of our life, or what is driving it. Our "within" is astonishingly complex and subtle - even devious. It takes on a life of its own. Only God knows our depths, who we are, and what we would do." (Willard, Renovation of the Heart, 17)

At least I am aware that there is a profound epistemic gap between my feeble cognitive abilities and an omniscient God. This compels me to do the one thing I can, which is:

Get before God and pray, "Search me."

(A closing note for pastors: focus on identity.)

Thursday, December 18, 2025

Deconstructing Progressive Christianity: Point #3

 


 


ABOUT ME

I am a husband (to Linda, since 1973). A father. A father-in-law. A grandfather! A pastor (since 1970). A professor (taught at several seminaries around the world; taught philosophy at Monroe County Community College for 18 years). A philosopher, and a theologian. (PhD, Northwestern University, in Philosophical Theology, 1986).

I have studied people, and biblical and theological issues, and culture, for over fifty years. I am a constant reader and observer. 

I present to you a series of posts I am calling "Deconstructing 'Progressive Christianity.'" Here are reasons why I could not be a "progressive Christian." The first two posts are especially about this, using semantics and some deconstruction thrown in. (See here.) Post #1 was: "'Progressive' is not a word that fits into a Christian eschatological worldview." Post #2 was "The term "progressive Christianity" is too vague to be useful." Post #3 is  - "Progressive Christianity Wrongly Diminishes Confidence in the Bible." In the third post I will critique progressive Christianity's approach to the Scriptures. I am still putting together Post #4, and maybe a fifth post.

A final note before I begin this first post. I have read, as a theologian myself, several of the theologians who are usually associated with progressive Christianity. (Postmodernism, deconstruction, critical theory, linguistic semantics and philosophy of language (my dissertation was in this area), and, yes, political progressivism.) Some of them have written books and articles that I have benefitted from. But then, along the way, some of them turned away from some core beliefs that I see as important to our faith. Some of them were "deconverted" from evangelical Christianity. That has saddened me. 

I want you to know that there are many theologians and biblical scholars, such as myself, who have not departed from what we see as essential. This is not out of ignorance. We are quite familiar with, and have wrestled with, all the questions progressivists raise. And wow! We see things differently. Which means: we disagree with each other. Which means: we think each other is wrong about some things. (For example, see Brian McLaren's vicious disagreement with The Nashville Statement, where he even brings in the KKK, implicating the 24,000+ theologians and biblical scholars, and even Francis Chan, J. I. Packer, and people like me, who agree with the Statement.)

I hope you gain from these posts. I will do my best to revolve around one main point per post. I'll do my best to make it accessible. 

Blessings!


John Piippo

Redeemer Fellowship Church, Monroe, MI

johnpiippo@msn.com


***

I have already given two reasons why I could never call myself a "progressive Christian." The first reason was that the word 'progressive' does not work as a modifier to 'Christianity', because 'progressive' does not fit into a Christian eschatology. I added that the biblical view of sin mitigates against any idea that, over time, humanity has made and is making and will make moral and spiritual "progress." Indeed, there are many secularists who consider "progressivism" to be rooted in the mythical idol of Progress. (See, e.g., John Gray, Straw Dogs; and Rod Dreher, Live Not By Lies: A Manual for Christian Dissidents.)

The second reason I could not self-identify as a "progressive Christian" is because I find that the term 'progressive Christian' is unacceptably vague, and therefore not useful. Basically, my point is simply this: I am unable to identify with a group if the meaning of the group is vague and amorphous. 

In this post I present a third reason why I could never self-identity as "progressive Christian." It's this. Progressive Christianity diminishes the authority of the Bible. It undermines faith, especially the faith of young believers. 

Greg Boyd, in his recent book defending the full inspiration and authority of the Bible, says the same. Boyd defines PC this way: 

"Progressive evangelicals: A very diverse group of people who continue to embrace many of the distinctives of evangelicalism, including the importance of having a personal relationship with Jesus, but who tend to emphasize the social justice aspect of the Gospel while embracing at least aspects of the historical-critical approach to Scripture." (P. 177)  

Progressive Christians, if they are academics, utilize what has been called the historical-critical method to interpret the Bible. What is the historical-critical approach to the Bible? Boyd writes:

Historical-Critical Approach to Scripture: A method of studying Scripture that treats it no differently than it would treat any other ancient collection of writings. Among other things, historical-critical scholars try to discern the various possible sources that may have been combined in the construction of a biblical narrative. And they try to determine the historical veracity of these sources, though they often vary widely in their determinations.”

This concerns Boyd, because use of the historical-critical method tends to undermine faith and confidence in the Scriptures. He writes:

“The church has traditionally considered the entire Bible to be God-breathed… This conviction has been foundational to the life and faith of the church throughout history. Every reforming and reviving movement in church history was based on this foundation. Conversely, history has demonstrated that groups that abandon the church’s traditional understanding of Scripture tend to drift outside the bounds of historic orthodox Christianity…  

If we imagine the church as a ship on a tumultuous sea, the Bible has always served as the rudder that keeps her on course. In our postmodern, post-Christendom, and (some are claiming) post-truth world, the sea in the Western world is as tumultuous as it has ever been. Which means, the Western church arguably has never needed its rudder more than it does right now.”

A year ago I was talking with a young adult who reads my blog. They told me they had become a "progressive Christian." Another "progressive Christian" had placed doubts in them, about the inspiration and authority of the Bible. Without researching this, they no longer believed in the stories of the Old Testament, and "only believed in Jesus." (Even though Jesus viewed the Old [First] Testament as inspired and authoritative!) This, to them, was "progress." Yet, as expected, they knew nothing of the historical-critical method of interpreting Scripture. All this, to me, was unthinking regressivism. 

I suggested the following.

First, abandon the amorphous title "progressive Christian." I prefer calling myself "follower of Jesus." And, "Christian" (using no modifiers). 

Second, go slow, when it comes to understanding Scripture. Here's part of my story.

I attended theological seminary in the 1970s. There, I was escpially interested in hermeneutical theories. This included Rudolph Bultmann's method of "demythologizing" biblical texts. Bultmann removed the supernatural from the Bible stories, denoting it as mythical.

As I studied Bultmann, I also read New Testament theologians who critiqued him. There were many! But note this. When I read Bultmannian scholars who told me the resurrection of Jesus was a myth, I did not jump on it and deny the historical resurrection. I was going slow. Plus, I was not an anti-supernaturalist. (As I read scholars who self-refer as "progressive Christian," I find many of them to be antisupernaturalists or, at least, to avoid the subject. See footnote 1 below.)

Third, study biblical interpretation. One of my doctoral qualifying exams was in new hermeneutical theories. I actually taught a course on this in Garrett-Theological Seminary's M. Div. program. Begin with this book, by New Testament scholar Gordon Fee - How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth

Fourth, ask questions, then research the questions. Is it OK to ask questions about the Bible? Of course! I have found this to be true: the deeper you go into understanding something, the more, and different, questions you will have.

When I have a question about a biblical text or story that captivates me, I study. Some of my studies have lasted for decades. For example, in the 1980s I began studying the historicity of the biblical Exodus. These studies continue to this day. Some of the texts I have read include this, and this, and this, and this, and this. I subscribe to this. I use this Bible. And, I read biblical commentaries on the book of Exodus. 

The young "progressive Christian" who still, somehow, "believed in Jesus," cannot be faulted for lack of study. This young person was disconnected from the arena of academic biblical, textual studies. But progressive Christians who are academics create for me the kind of concerns Greg Boyd mentions above.


***

If you are someone who is asking questions about the veracity of the biblical texts, here are two resources I suggest you become familiar with.

Craig Blomberg, Can We Still Believe the Bible? 

Darrell Bock, James Hoffmeier, et. al., Do Historical Matters Matter to Faith?

***

See also:

Deconstructing Progressive Christianity: Point #1



Footnote 1 - "When naturalistic assumptions serve to control “real history,” we should not be surprised to see the proponents of historical criticism either struggle to maintain belief in the historical reliability of the biblical accounts or give up on that reliability entirely (or, in some cases, almost entirely). But the claims of metaphysical naturalism should have no hold on historians who are Christian believers (or other theists). Moreover, as Plantinga’s famous “evolutionary argument against naturalism” shows, metaphysical naturalism itself is not without without some stiff challenges (some of which are epistemological in nature)."

   Thomas H. McCall, "Religious Epistemology, Theological Interpretation of Scripture, and Critical Biblical Scholarship: A Theologian's Perspective," in Do Historical Matters Matter to Faith? (p. 45) 

Tuesday, December 16, 2025

The Rhythm of My Spiritual Life Is a Wheel Rolling Forward


(I re-post this periodically to keep it in play.)
When I became a follower of Jesus fifty-two years ago (!!!) I was an undergraduate at Northern Illinois University. I began to attend a campus ministry. I was asked if I wanted to be in a Small Group for Bible study and prayer. I was told this experience would be one of the keys to my spiritual vitality and growth.

That proved true. I've been in a Small Group all fifty-three years of my Christian life. Linda and I have been in a Small Group Community all fifty-one years of our marriage.

The early Jesus-followers met in small groups of Jesus-followers; in homes, in upper rooms, wherever they could find a gathering place. Small Group Community was essential to the explosive spiritual and numerical growth of the early church. It's also essential to my spiritual life and growth.

The rhythm of my spiritual life looks like this:

I meet alone with God. I spend time with God in "the secret place." 
This is the Very Small Group (VSG) - God and I.

I meet bi-weekly in a Home Group to study scripture and pray together. 
This is the Small Group (SG) - 8-12 people.

I meet Sunday mornings to worship and listen to the preached Word on Sunday mornings and other times.
This is the Large Group (LG)

Today it's Saturday morning, and I have spent time alone with God in the VSG.

A week ago was the SG - Linda and I were there.

On Sunday morning I'll be with my LG.


VSG-SG-LG; VSG-SG-LG...  over and over again and again.


It looks like this:





Note: this is a circle rolling forward on a path, led by God, progressing in the spiritual life and the movement of God and his kingdom. (It is not "the eternal recurrence of the same.")


***
My book on prayer focuses on the VSGPraying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God.

THE GREAT INVASION #16 Miracles Were Performed Through Jesus

 



(From my book. Chapter 16.)

 #16
Miracles Were Performed Through Jesus

"For general purposes used here, 

a 'miracle' may be defined as an extraordinary event

with an unusual supernatural cause."

- Craig Keener[i]


I have witnessed miracles. Here's one that happened with us at Redeemer,  which Craig Keener records in his book Miracles, and Lee Strobel shares in The Case for Miracles

 Carl Cocherell was a long-distance runner. He trained for, and ran, marathons. He ran the Detroit Free Press Marathon and did well enough to qualify for the Boston Marathon. I remember being in Carl’s home. He showed me a photo taken of him running in Boston.

Your feet are important when you run like Carl did. His family told me a story about Carl’s obsession with running. One time Carl’s wife Sarah said to her husband, “Carl, we need to get some bread. We’re out of it. Would you run to the store and get a loaf of bread?” And he did. Literally. Carl ran a few miles, round trip, to get a loaf of bread.

I have never been able to run like Carl ran. But I admired him for his athletic abilities. And I felt sad when he broke his foot.

Carl was on a spiritual retreat in Branson, Missouri. He was checking the oil in his car, and stepped down, and heard a crack in his foot. He went to the emergency room in Branson. The orthopedic surgeon showed him the X-rays.

After setting the break, the orthopedist ordered Carl to stay overnight. He put Carl’s foot in a cast, and told him, “You will need months of therapy.”

I remember hearing what happened to Carl. At our church, on the Sunday following his accident, some of our people prayed, asking God to heal Carl’s broken foot.

Craig Keener writes about what happened next.

“Carl's wife drove them back to Michigan, and the next day his family doctor sent him to the hospital for some more X-rays. After receiving the X-rays, his doctor called him into the office and explained that there were no breaks, or even tissue indicating where the break had been. "You never had a broken ankle," the doctor explained. 

Carl pointed out the X-rays from Missouri. "That is a broken ankle," the doctor admitted. But now there was no sign that he even had one, so the doctor removed the cast right away. 

Apart from the ankle being blue for a couple of days, Carl had no problem with it. At church that Sunday, where he used no crutches or other support, he testified how God healed him. Carl provided me with the radiology reports from before and after the healing supporting his claim."[ii]

I have the radiology reports, before and after, in my office at home.

Jesus performed miracles. He healed people. Keener writes:


"Scholars often note that miracles characterized Jesus's historical activity no less than his teaching and prophetic activities did. So central are miracle reports to the Gospels that one could remove them only if one regarded the Gospels as preserving barely any genuine information about Jesus."[iii]

Western culture, influenced by David Hume's skeptical arguments, dismisses the possibility of miracles. Thomas Jefferson, architect of the "American Jesus," insisted that miracles "were an affront to the demands of reason and the laws of nature, and Jesus had performed not a one."[iv]

One of the innumerable strong points in Keener's book is a thorough debunking of Hume's argument against the possibility of miracles, thus clearing the way for their possibility and, in examples such as Carl’s, their actuality. 

 Miracles were performed through the Real Jesus. They were central, Kingdom-confirming signs and wonders. In my fifty-four years as a Jesus-follower I have seen several of them, which I have recorded in my journals, spoken publicly about, and written about.

Today, remember that all things are possible with God, as you connect with Christ. 

 

The blind will see
The deaf will hear
And the dead will live again
The lame will leap
The dumb will speak
The praises of the Lamb

“Mary, Did You Know?”



[ii] - Ib.  P. 440

 

[iii] Ib.  Pp 23-24

 

[iv] Stephen Prothero, American Jesus, p. 23

 

Monday, December 15, 2025

Looking for a Joyful Person

 

                                                           (The Dime Store, in Detroit.)

To find a joyful person, look beneath the surface behaviors.

Henri Nouwen writes:

"Joyful persons do not necessarily make jokes, laugh, or even smile. They are not people with an optimistic outlook on life who always relativize the seriousness of a moment or an event. No, joyful persons see with open eyes the hard reality of human existence and at the same time are not imprisoned by it. They have no illusion about the evil powers that roam around, “looking for someone to devour” (1 Peter 5:8), but they also know that death has no final power. They suffer with those who suffer, yet they do not hold on to suffering; they point beyond it to an everlasting peace."


Nouwen, Henri J. M.. You Are the Beloved: 365 Daily Readings and Meditations for Spiritual Living: A Devotional (p. 383). 

Blessed Are the Mono-Taskers, for They Shall See God


                                                                         (Redeemer church, in Monroe)

My Payne Theological Seminary class is called Spiritual Formation. My main assignment is: set apart one hour a day, five days a week, for seven weeks. Use this time to pray and listen to God. Keep a record of the voice and activity of God in a spiritual journal. 

Needed: listening skills, ability to meditate, and focus, to allow God to dive deep in your heart. 

I taught, for seventeen years, three philosophy courses at Monroe County Community College: Introduction to Logic, Introduction to Western Philosophy, and Philosophy of Religion. The ability to stay on task is needed to learn philosophy, and to think philosophically. A philosopher must have the capacity to go inward, to ponder, to ruminate. 

Spiritual formation and philosophy are slow cookers, not microwaves. Both, if attended to, produce lasting fruit in a person’s life. Oak trees grow from the soil of slow thinking about life’s big ideas. (For one example of slow-cooked thinking, see Daniel Kahneman, Thinking, Fast and Slow.)

Deep, lasting, relationships are best when slow-cooked, too. This includes the God-relationship. Knowing God involves more than theoretical knowledge, just as one learns to ride a bike by actually riding it, by  spending much time with it.  

Kierkegaard told us that a pure heart, untainted by distractions, wills one thing. To “will one thing” is to focus on, attend to, be captivated by, be still before, one thing. What is the benefit of that? Nothing less, said Jesus, than the visio dei. (See here.) 

Blessed are the mono-taskers, for they shall see God.


(From my book Praying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God.)

Sunday, December 14, 2025

Should We Affirm Everyone's Worldview?

 

                                                          (Sterling State Park, Monroe)

Every moral judgment finds its residence in a pre-existing worldview. There are folks who do not agree with me morally. They don't accept my Jesus-formed worldview. OK. But if I have the opportunity to ask them, I say, "What is your worldview? Please explain."

I've been studying worldviews for five decades. I see no reason to discard my Christian theistic worldview. What might I replace it with? There's nothing on the horizon, as I see it. So, do not be intimidated by someone who doesn't like your worldview.

I taught logic at Monroe County Community College for seventeen years. I used two logic textbooks: Hurley, and Vaughn. Both texts, indeed, all logic texts, are about evaluating and formulating beliefs. A belief is a statement that claims something as either true, or false. To claim that something is true, or false, is to say that a certain state of affairs obtains, or does not obtain.

For example, The window in my home office is now closed. That statement is true. Which means, it is true for everybody, whether they agree with it or not. This is called "objective truth." 

Objective truth is not socially constructed. Or, at least, an objective truth cannot be fully reduced to a social construction. Objective truth has nothing to do with whether or not people affirm or disaffirm it.

This is how scientists think. To claim that The Moderna vaccine has a 95% efficacy against the coronavirus is to say that a certain objective state of affairs obtains. Which is to say, it either does, or it doesn't, and this has nothing to do with the social construction of reality. Should we affirm everyone's belief about the efficacy of the Moderna vaccine? Of course not. The scientist is interested in What IS the efficacy of the Moderna vaccine? The answer to this question is unrelated to what people believe about the efficacy of the vaccine.

Vaughn has some nice sections on worldviews. A worldview is a set of beliefs. Vaughn writes:

"A worldview is a philosophy of life, a set of beliefs and theories that helps us make sense of a wide range of issues in life. It defines for us what exists, what should be, and what we can know. We all have a worldview, and our notions about morality are part of it." (P. 422)

Worldviews differ. Should we affirm everyone's worldview? Of course not. We should love people, of course. But we should not expect those who hold to differing worldviews to affirm (agree with? Endorse?) differing worldviews. Here is why.

The statement We should affirm everyone's worldview is itself part of a worldview (postmodernism). This moral belief itself is not part of my worldview (Christianity), for example. It's also not part of a Muslim worldview. Nor is it part of a philosophical atheist's worldview. Over the years I have had numerous discussions with atheists. Not one of them has "affirmed" my belief that God exists.

Undergirding the false belief that We should affirm everyone's worldview is the belief that Reality is socially constructed. But if that were true, then the belief that Reality is socially constructed is itself socially constructed. If the belief that we should affirm everyone's worldview is itself socially constructed, then we need pay no attention to it.

Friday, December 12, 2025

Come, Now Is the Time to Behold Him

(Black-capped chickadee,
on our back deck)















Thomas Merton writes:

"If we are fools enough to remain at the mercy of the people who want to sell us happiness, it will be impossible for us ever to be content with anything. How would they profit if we became content? We would no longer need their new product. The last thing the salesman wants is for the buyer to become content. You are of no use in our affluent society unless you are always just about to grasp what you never have." (Conjectures of a Guilty Bystander, 86)

Come, now is the time to purchase. And be discontent.

On the other hand, Paul writes, in Philippians 4:12 - I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.

He writes out of a simple, impoverished context. Paul did not have a closet full of clothes, a garage full of toys, a refrigerator filled with food, and a 401K. "Plenty" for Paul was our "in need." "In need" for Paul was our destituteness. But he had learned some things. One was "the secret of being content in any and every situation."

Contentment, for Paul, was not contingent on economic security or material possessions. He experienced contentment, whatever the situation. Real contentment is not circumstance-bound. I'd like that, wouldn't you? What's the secret?

It's an open secret that Paul found strength and contentment in Christ, the hope of glory, within. Having Christ within implies contentment and satisfaction. What could be greater than internalizing the Lord of heaven and earth? The world works hard to get us to forget this.

This season, remember.

Be not distracted.

Come, now is the time to behold Him.

Thursday, December 11, 2025

CHRISTMAS AND THE POWER OF HUMILITY


This is two years old, so the dates don't line up with the present. Nonetheless, I am re-posting it for this Christmas season. Blessings!

Wednesday, December 10, 2025

The Joy of Living Without Things

 


                (Our grandchildren, Levi and Harper)


The biblical idea of contentment is circumstance-independent. As are peace, joy, love and so on. 

The "fruit of the Spirit" is circumstance-independent. Were this not so, things like inner peace would be conditional, and that's bad news for all of us. That is, "IF I have _________, THEN I will have inner peace."

This "If... then" mentality results in our being captive to our circumstances.

Philip Yancey shares this story In his excellent book on prayer.

"I remembered reading the account of a spiritual seeker who interrupted a busy life to spend a few days in a monastery. “I hope your stay is a blessed one,” said the monk who showed the visitor to his cell. “If you need anything, let us know and we’ll teach you how to live without it.”" (Yancey, 
Prayer, Kindle Locations 1012-1015)

Tuesday, December 09, 2025

Forgiving Others - Three Stages

 


Chicago

What is forgiveness? Lewis Smedes, in his paradigm-changing book Forgive and Forget, stages the process of forgiveness this way.

1) You surrender the right to get even with the person who wronged you.

You will no longer engage in ways of making them pay for how they wounded you.

You give whatever justice should be exacted over to God.

You let it go.

2) You reinterpret the person who wronged you in a larger format.

You begin to see the person as God sees them. 

This helps us avoid creating a "caricature" of the person who wounded us. "In the act of forgiving, we get a new picture of a needy, weak, complicated, fallible human being like ourselves."

We begin to see that we are "that kind of people" too, not in the details, but in the heart.

As you begin to view the person who hurt you this way, forgiveness is taking root in you.

Forgiveness will be securely planted in you when you experience stage three, as a matter of your heart.

3) You develop a gradual desire for the welfare of the person who wounded you.

At this stage you are like Jesus, who loved us even as we were his enemies and wounded him on the cross.

Saturday, December 06, 2025

NINE ELEMENTS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

 

 

                                                             (Monroe)

NINE ELEMENTS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

-       Linda & John Piippo

(Linda and I preached this on Sunday morning, Aug. 16, 2020.) 

What we have learned about relationships. Surely there’s more to say.

This is for all relationships - family, friends, neighbors, colleagues, teams, and marriages.

 

9 Components of Healthy Relationships

1.    Love one another. With unconditional, agape love. (No “If-then” love).

 

2.    Understanding each other. Get a PhD in the other person. Don’t judge or evaluate without understanding. To understand is to love; to be understood is to feel loved.

 

3.    Submit to one another (this is life in the Kingdom of God)

           with boundaries. (Ephesians 5:21 - Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.)      

4.    Share core values. Have the highest values in common.

 

5.    Address anything that creates a barrier to relationship.

 

o   Don’t let the sun…

o   Nothing is too insignificant here…

 

6.    Be responsible for your own behaviors and attitudes. Don’t live like a victim.

 

7.    Keep your problems between yourselves. Don’t talk to others about the other person. Unless you’re sharing with someone who can guide you in repairing the relationship.

 

8.    Confess and forgive. If you hurt someone, confess (specifically) to them. If your friend confesses to you, forgive them.

 

9.    In all things, speak the truth in love. EPHESIANS 4:15 - Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.

 

o   Feel anger, but don’t sin and respond by hurting back. Deal with your anger by caring and confronting.

 

 

Linda wrote these thoughts about how we have learned to do life together.

·      We choose to love.

·      We share almost everything.

·      We serve one another and look for ways to do that.

·      We pray.

·      We talk about hard things.

·      We read

o   Together

o   Alone

o   And share what we read with one another

·      We talk about hard Bible verses and difficult theological issues.

·      We share insights with others that we have learned ourselves.

·      We tolerate our weaknesses, but don’t let them hurt us.

·      We quickly forgive.

·      We welcome new experiences.

·      We love doing much together.

·      We hold each other accountable to our words and our spiritual lives.

 

EPHESIANS 4:15 - Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.

HOW TO DO THIS!