Tuesday, November 26, 2024

Now Reading...

 


I'm now reading Critical Dilemma: The Rise of Critical Theories and Social Justice Ideology—Implications for the Church and Society, by Neil Shenvi and Pat Sawyer.

Here are the reviews.


"Critical Dilemma does a better job of addressing the underlying influences on how we've gotten here than any other book I've read. Shenvi and Sawyer have done the church a great service. They unequivocally demonstrate that you can be knowledgeable of historic factors relating to racism, sympathetic and engaged in wanting to work to make things better now, yet resistant to unbiblical ideas and solutions offered by critical social theory, recognizing that those approaches will ultimately prevent us from dealing with the issues constructively. A truly excellent work. A must read."
--Ligon Duncan, BA, MDiv, MA, PhD (Edin), chancellor and CEO of Reformed Theological Seminary

"A charitable parsing of contemporary critical theories, Critical Dilemma untangles what's useful from what's ineffective among the teachings associated with racial, gender, and economic equity. The work roundly denounces racism and other systemically abusive antihuman evils, yet argues that critical theories struggle to provide meaningful solutions without creating de-humanizing inequities of their own. Critical Dilemma engages popular ideas without hurling invective, making it unique in the discussion. Those who have been wrongly labeled as Marxist, or as upholding white supremacy, or (astonishingly) as both, will appreciate the authors' careful definition of terms; insiders struggling with the systems' inconsistencies and fearful of the backlash that accompanies critique will draw courage to voice concerns and find themselves introduced to a true pro-human approach to equality that liberates body, mind, and soul."

--K.A. Ellis, director at The Edmiston Center at Reformed Theological Seminary, Atlanta, GA

"Critical Dilemma offers an outstanding crash course in all things woke and social-justice related. If you want a deeper, more nuanced, and clearer understanding of the culture war and what's become the dominant moral ideology, then read this book. After 500 pages, you'll have a master's degree in contemporary madness."

--Peter Boghossian, founding faculty fellow of University of Austin, TX

"In the past few years, we have experienced a cultural upheaval surrounding issues of race, sexuality, gender, identity politics, and social justice. I urge everyone to read Critical Dilemma, a thorough, well-documented, fair, and truthful resource that will likely become the go-to primer for understanding the infusion of critical theory into Western society. For anyone left feeling confused, frustrated, and bewildered by the radical shift in culture, this book will be a helpful guide. For anyone buying into the tenets of contemporary critical theory, this book will be a force to be reckoned with."

--Alisa Childers, host of The Alisa Childers Podcast, author of Another Gospel? and Live Your Truth and Other Lies

"Encyclopedic! Exhaustive! Excellent! Essential! These are four words that come to mind concerning this book. It is encyclopedic. I will refer to sections of it again and again in the years to come. It is exhaustive. The research is both broad and in-depth. No stone is left unturned. It is excellent. It is well written, charitable, honest, and fair in its critiques. It is essential. It is a must-read for anyone who wishes to accurately understand all the many disciplines and movements that now reside under the umbrella of critical theory. The umbrella is large, and the residents are numerous. There is much to consider, and this book provides exactly what we need. Shenvi and Sawyer have rendered a valuable service to the academy, culture, and church. We are in their debt."

--Daniel L. Akin, president of Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, Wake Forest, NC

"This work is a tour de force. Written with the erudition of careful scholarship, the thoughtful insight of careful reflection, and the gracious wisdom of pastoral care, this book contains all that you need to know to engage meaningfully in this conversation. As a pastor, I found it particularly helpful. It is balanced, fair, and very compelling. Drs. Shenvi and Sawyer let critical theorists explain themselves in their own words, and then they note both the positive contributions and negative pitfalls of critical theory. I was amazed at how Shenvi and Sawyer took even the most complex philosophical concepts and made them understandable and memorable for the lay reader. This might not be the only book you ever read on this subject, but it should definitely be the first. This will be my first recommended resource for anyone wanting to engage in this very pressing conversation."

--J.D. Greear, PhD, pastor, The Summit Church; 62nd president of the Southern Baptist Convention; author of Essential Christianity: The Heart of the Gospel in 10 Words

"Thorough and well documented! This is the Christian critique of critical theory that is needed in our churches today. Shenvi and Sawyer's in-depth inspection of critical theory shines a light on the framework's failures and why, as believers, we cannot adopt it."

--Monique Duson and Krista Bontrager, cofounders of The Center for Biblical Unity

"Critical Dilemma is substantive and rich in content, possessing the rare combination of first-rate scholarship and broad accessibility. Shenvi and Sawyer provide a well-crafted treatment of some of today's most important yet controversial topics, such as race, gender, unity, and justice. They introduce the reader to the complex world of contemporary critical theories and do so with prose that respects the depth and nuance these subjects require. Critical Dilemma not only exposes the flaws of contemporary critical theories but also compellingly directs the reader toward 'a more excellent way.' With feet planted in both the scholarship of the academy and the sound doctrine of the church, Shenvi and Sawyer have given both the church and society an indispensable gift. In my view, Critical Dilemma will prove to be one of the most important works of our day."
--William "Duce" Branch (aka The Ambassador), assistant professor of preaching at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary

"I have long appreciated Neil Shenvi's articles analyzing critical theory. He consistently handles contentious issues calmly, clearly, and carefully. In this book-length treatment, he and Pat Sawyer have teamed up to create an important resource for anyone seeking to craft an intelligent critique of critical theory."
--Nancy Pearcey, professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University, author of several books including Total Truth and Love Thy Body

"One of Critical Dilemma's greatest values is in its clear and concise run-down of contemporary critical social theory. The authors give a balanced view of critical social theory--the good and the bad--but show how the detriments often outweigh the benefits. One need not be particularly religious to see the value in this book. However, the authors thoroughly and effectively remind readers of the benefits of Christianity while calling into question the sanctity of contemporary modes of social justice. Thus, it serves as a valuable resource and guide for those with evangelical sensibilities. For both Christians and non-Christians trying to understand and navigate the world of DEI, Critical Dilemma is a must-have."
--Erec Smith, PhD, associate professor of rhetoric at York College of Pennsylvania, president and cofounder of Free Black Thought

"There is a growing sense of global confusion about the meaning of words and ideas. What sounds benign in the classical sense has become toxic; 'tolerance' now demands 'acceptance and affirmation, ' 'disagreement' is now 'intolerance, ' and 'visual diversity' has replaced 'diversity of thought' in many of our civil institutions. Neil Shenvi and Pat Sawyer offer a thoughtful and balanced analysis of the ideologies behind the deconstruction of the core values on which our society was built--values without which movements for true justice would have never succeeded. Critical Dilemma is an indispensable tool to clear the fog of cultural confusion--a fog that, left unchecked, will further destabilize our institutions and tear our culture apart."
--Carl F. Ellis, provost's professor of theology and culture at Reformed Theological Seminary

"Critical Dilemma is a tour de force. I found Neil Shenvi and Pat Sawyer's masterful distillation of critical theory refreshing. Their sympathetic and humble, yet powerful, dissection of the claims advanced by these fashionable race, gender, and sexuality theories is first class. Readers seeking to understand and rebut illiberal progressive arguments will find a quiver full of ethical arrows to do so, be these from secular philosophy or the Bible. The authors argue that the new social justice religion tears down much that is valuable for human flourishing in the name of a retributive, levelling-down egalitarianism. Evangelical Protestant Christianity, they aver, with its 'vertical' individual-to-God relationship, is fundamentally incompatible with the 'horizontal' oppressor-oppressed worldview of the woke faith--even if it contributes some positive insights. As a secular reader, I found the window into progressive evangelicalism and its critics fascinating, and emerged with an enhanced understanding of the Christian perspective on race and gender activism. I very much recommend this book."
--Eric Kaufmann, professor of politics at Birkbeck College, University of London

"Knowledge is power and ignorance is not bliss within or outside the church. If you truly want to understand the cultural forces ripping apart American institutions, I urge you to read and devour Shenvi and Sawyer's outstanding analysis of critical theory, its roots, and its destructive manifestations. Critical Dilemma offers a thorough and accessible tool to educate pastors, church leaders, and congregants. High school and college students can learn much by reading this book and using it as a reference tool."
--Dr. Carol M. Swain, distinguished senior fellow for constitutional studies at the Texas Public Policy Foundation, retired professor of political science and law at Vanderbilt University

"For the past five years, Neil Shenvi's website has been enormously helpful to me as I have tried to better understand the 'contemporary critical theory' cultural revolution. Most of us don't have the patience and expertise to engage so many technical primary sources that are incompatible with Christianity. In this book, Shenvi and Sawyer update their years of research to give us a resource that is clear, meticulous, responsible, reasonable, penetrating, loving, and discerning. Their work is especially helpful for pastors and teachers, for God calls us not only to give instruction in sound doctrine, but also to rebuke those who contradict it (Titus 1:9)."
--Andy Naselli, professor of systematic theology and New Testament at Bethlehem College and Seminary, one of the pastors at The North Church

"It seems that the church mistakenly believed that she could win the world without understanding philosophy, and, God help us, as a result, the world's philosophies have won us. Shenvi and Sawyer are fortifying what I believe is the biggest breach in the defense of the faith today--the philosophy of the Christian worldview. Whether you are a lay person or an academic, this book could save you from deception and despair."
--John L. Cooper, front man for the Christian rock band Skillet, author of Awake and Alive to Truth, host of the Cooper Stuff Podcast

"Critical Dilemma achieves what many books and much commentary on the subject of critical theory do not: A comprehensive critique of critical theory that is careful, fair, impeccably researched, thorough, rhetorically calm, and surgically precise. Shenvi and Sawyer do yeoman's work in explaining just how saturated our culture is in critical theory categories. Invoking critical theory in social discourse all but guarantees its defender an unfalsifiable forcefield of infallibility. But the authors of Critical Dilemma expose critical theory for what it is: An acid whose tenets are unreconcilable with biblical Christianity."
--Andrew T. Walker, PhD, associate professor of Christian ethics at The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, fellow in Christian political thought at The Ethics and Public Policy Center

"For Christians who are willing to go deeper to understand the complexities of critical theory beyond popular-level talking points, there is no better book than this. Shenvi and Sawyer go to extensive lengths to explain the nuances of critical theory accurately and fairly. They then show how it compares and contrasts with a biblical worldview on multiple levels. If you read just one book on the topic of critical theory from a biblical perspective, make it this."
--Natasha Crain, speaker, podcaster, author of four books including Faithfully Different

"Critical Dilemma is a well-researched, carefully reasoned work deserving slow, thorough reading and consideration. Many evangelical critiques of contemporary critical theory are unwilling to acknowledge the slightest elements of truth. This volume does, while offering sound arguments as to where and how the primary ideas of critical social theory are incompatible with biblical doctrines and destructive to Christian unity. Shenvi and Sawyer accomplish this with refreshing candor and humility, neither omitting nor minimizing extraordinarily ugly elements of our nation's past and present. This is timely scholarship in service of the church."
--Keith W. Plummer, PhD, dean of the School of Divinity, Cairn University

"Perhaps you've heard terms like wokecritical race theory, and intersectionality, but like many, don't quite understand them. Critical Dilemma is among the most important books written to help us understand and respond to the cultural revolution taking place in America that is threatening our families, churches, and civilization. While accessibly written from a distinctly Christian perspective, it is also charitable and fair in the views it critiques while remaining firm in sounding the alarm about the perils of contemporary critical theory."
--Corey Miller, PhD (University of Aberdeen, Scotland), author, former university professor, current president of Ratio Christi

"We are living through an epoch shift in which the 'anything goes' relativism of the 1990s and 2000s have given way to a highly moralistic, quick-to-judge, all-encompassing narrative that has now broken mainstream in corporations, schools, politics, entertainment, and even churches. Exhaustively researched and evenhanded, Neil Shenvi and Pat Sawyer offer a probing and timely study of the critical theories that have captured the popular imagination. Not only are they rigorous and fair, they also chart a course toward more biblical, and, therefore, more hopeful and Christ-exalting answers to the injustices that haunt society. For anyone seeking to understand our cultural moment and bring the good news of Jesus to bear in our ideologically charged and divided age, Critical Dilemma is essential reading."
--Thaddeus Williams, author of Confronting Injustice Without Compromising Truth: 12 Questions Christians Should Ask About Social Justice, professor of systematic theology at Biola University

"Critical Dilemma is the right book at the right time. In fact, it's overdue, given how influential the pop culture versions of critical social theory ideas have become and how poorly these ideas are understood and engaged in an age where people are more committed to political wins than to truth, justice, or love. This book is well researched and well written. Shenvi and Sawyer have given us all a tremendous gift."
--John Stonestreet, president of the Colson Center, host of BreakPoint

"Critical Dilemma is a potent, carefully documented Christian assessment of a variety of ideological perspectives, such as critical race theory, transgenderism, decolonial theory, and queer theory. Shenvi and Sawyer offer a discerning comparison between these types of contemporary critical theory and the biblical worldview of evangelical theology. A clear and fair-minded account of how critical theory has become so influential and yet why its diagnoses and proposed cures for the disparities, injustices, suffering, and other predicaments that have differentially impacted the human condition end up far afield from a biblical perspective."
--William L. Hathaway, PhD, executive vice president for academic affairs, professor of psychology at Regent University

"Expertly sourced and thoroughly cited, Critical Dilemma provides Christians with the background knowledge they need to heed the warning of Colossians 2:8 to beware of philosophies and vain deceits, such as attempts to redefine oppression or privilege. As Shenvi and Sawyer eloquently explain, the only privilege that really matters is to know and be known by an omniscient, omnipresent, and ever-loving God. No philosophy ever saved anyone. The truth of the gospel, 'Jesus in my place, ' can save and is open to everyone who will accept it."
--Dr. C.A. Tuggle, Stembler Distinguished Professor of Broadcast Journalism, senior associate dean at UNC-Chapel Hill

"Whether you are a Christian, an atheist, or something else entirely, Critical Dilemma is an invaluable analysis of the extraordinary (and some would say, religious) transformations rippling across our culture and society. An extremely clear and illustrative contemporary guide for the perplexed, this book is ultimately a wholehearted defense of genuine empathy, unity, and justice for all."

--Thomas Chatterton Williams, contributing writer to The Atlantic

Monday, November 25, 2024

My Christmas Devotional Book Now Available


My Christmas devotional book (with the correct cover) is now up and available.

The Great Invasion: Thirty-One Days of Christmas

PAPERBACK ($5.99)

E-BOOK/KINDLE ($4.99)


This is a 31-day devotional book, 

based on the life of Jesus.

The book's thesis is: The more we know about Jesus, 
the greater our worship of Him will be.

This book offers a deep dive into the story of Jesus.

Thirty-one days that will enrich the Christmas season!



 


Friday, November 22, 2024

My War to Rescue 'Deconstruction'

 


I am waging a small and enjoyable war to retain the meaning of the word 'deconstruction'.

It does not mean 'dismantling', or 'tearing down'. (See here.) If the word were simply another, more impressive-because-you're-using-a-big-word synonym for dismantling, it would be supremely uninteresting and self-promoting.

Here it is, from the OED: to analyze (a text or a linguistic or conceptual system) by deconstruction, typically in order to expose its hidden internal assumptions and contradictions and subvert its apparent significance or unity. For example,

"She likes to deconstruct the texts, to uncover what they are not saying."

That's it! With several implications to follow.

Thursday, November 21, 2024

A Loving Church Does Not Welcome Everything

 

                                                                      (Our back yard)


In Matthew 22 Jesus gives the parable of the wedding banquet. It concludes like this.

11 “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes. 12 He asked, ‘How did you get in here without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless.

13 “Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’

14 “For many are invited, but few are chosen.”

Klyne Snodgrass, in what might be the most thorough study of Jesus' parables, writes:

"We must reflect again on judgment. This theme appears repeatedly in Jesus’ teaching, and we are always uncomfortable with it. Couldn’t God just be a nice God and not hold anyone accountable?... 

Without the concept of judgment one does not even need salvation, and any urgency about life and its importance, about justice, or even about God is, if not lost, at least greatly diminished. Grace is only grace if the outcome should have been otherwise, and the significance of life depends on accountability for life. We may not like judgment, but it is a central and necessary message of both Testaments and especially of Jesus’ teaching." (Snodgrass, Stories with Intent: A Comprehensive Guide to the Parables of Jesus. Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Co.. Kindle Edition.) 

The Greek word for judgment is krino. Its root meaning is 'to cut', 'to make a separation'. Either you are for Jesus and a follower, or you refuse the invitation and are against him.  All persons who accept the invitation are with him; to refuse the terms of the invitation will mean being without him. Finally, in the end, the door is closed. This concept permeates Jesus' teachings.

When I was a campus pastor at Michigan State University Linda and I taught a Sunday morning class. As many as sixty university students attended. One Sunday a man in his thirties showed up and came to my class. He was not a student. We decided to welcome him and allow him to attend the class.

That morning, during class, the older man started softly giggling, with a smile on his face. He was looking around the circle of students.  This made some of our students uncomfortable. After class, I met with him. I asked about the giggling, and the smile. He told me this: "I am looking at the girls and undressing them in my mind." I asked if he wanted help with this behavior. He said, "No, because I am not hurting anyone as I do this." I told him he could not come to the student class any more. I offered to get him help, but he refused. I was willing to welcome this man, but I did not welcome his lusting after our female students. I shut the door to our Sunday class, while opening a door to possible healing.

The parable teaches "that we cannot have the kingdom on our own terms. The invitation of grace brings with it demand. At stake is the issue of a person’s identity. It is not enough to wear the right label (“the invited one”); rather, the kingdom must shape identity so that one has a whole different set of concerns." (Ib.)

Such "concerns" include doctrinal issues. 1 Timothy 1:3-7 says,

As I urged you when I went into Macedonia, stay there in Ephesus so that you may command certain people not to teach false doctrines any longer or to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies. Such things promote controversial speculations rather than advancing God’s work—which is by faith. The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith. Some have departed from these and have turned to meaningless talk. They want to be teachers of the law, but they do not know what they are talking about or what they so confidently affirm.

As you read 1 & 2 Timothy, and Titus, you see the focal point is: Do not welcome teachers of false doctrines into the church. This cuts both ways. For example, "cancel culture" bans certain speakers for teaching "false ideas." Examples of universities doing this abound. (E.g., Jonathan Haidt, The Coddling of the American Mind.

"Boundaries" have to do with keeping certain beliefs and behaviors in, and not allowing certain outside beliefs and behaviors in. Everyone has boundaries. Many need more, or better, boundaries. Boundaries include and exclude.

Everyone, including you, my dear reader, has physical and cognitive beliefs and behaviors that welcome, and that exclude. In fact, truth excludes. Even if that truth is not true. Here's one more example.

Years ago I purchased, on Amazon, Ryan T. Anderson's book When Harry Became Sally: Responding to the Transgender Moment. I thought it was clear, well-written, excellent. Shortly after my purchase, Amazon banned the book. It no longer sells it. 

And yet...  Amazon sells Hitler's Mein Kampf, which states that Jews and gypsies are the scum of the earth. Welcome to 1984

Is my church a welcoming church? Am I a welcoming pastor? I prefer substituting 'loving' for 'welcoming'. I would say, "we are," and "I am." And add, "not perfectly." A loving church, like a loving home with protective parents, does not welcome every teaching and every behavior into their house.

A loving church both embraces and excludes.

Tuesday, November 19, 2024

My New Book - A Christmas Devotional

 


My new book is now available on Kindle. Just $4.99.

The Great Invasion: 31 Days of Christmas.

Softcovers are coming, hopefully, in a few days.

Here is the Introduction to my book.


Blessings!


INTRODUCTION 

This is a book about Christmas. Which means, a book about Christ. I have thirty-one thoughts about Christ that I want to share with you. 

As I was completing the book, I had some “Oh no!” moments. “Oh no! I left this out of the book!” “Oh no, I should have also added this!” So many important things about Jesus are not in my book. 

I recognize this. Which is a good thing. The life of Jesus the Christ is deep, wide, long, high, and vast, as is His love. Christ transcends our human understanding. 

I have spent over fifty years studying Jesus. This includes doctoral research. I wrote one of my doctoral qualifying exams on the Christological controversies of the first four centuries of the Church. These controversies led to development of the great Christological creeds of the Christian faith. (‘Christology’ is the study of Christ.) 

I did another doctoral comprehensive exam on hermeneutics. Which is: interpretation theory. How to interpret texts. Beyond that, how to interpret anything at all. Hermeneutical principles are humming in the background of my mind, as I research Jesus.  

My doctoral dissertation (Northwestern University, 1986) was a hermeneutical thing on metaphor theory, and how it refers. I looked how words are used, literally and figuratively, to speak of events and concepts in the Bible. Since my seminary and doctoral studies, 

I have amassed a significant library of books about Jesus. I have not stopped reading, praying, and following after the life of the Living Christ. 

This includes seven years of preaching, in my church, through the four Gospels, chronologically. 

All this has led me to the conclusion that Christ is the Immanent One and the Transcendent One who cannot be fully captured by my tiny cognitive capacities. He is the familiar stranger. He is the mighty invader. He is the incarnate Word. He is the irresistible force. He is…  

The thesis of this little book is: To study and learn more about Jesus shapes and deepens our understanding of and experience of Christmas. 

I offer this to you as an opportunity to join me on a deep dive into the glory and majesty of this universe’s rightful King. 

MERRY CHRISTMAS!. 


***

TABLE OF CONTENTS 

Introduction 

#1​​ Jesus Is the Agent of Creation 

#2  ​​Jesus Was Born of a Virgin  

#3​​ Jesus Descended into Greatness 

#4​​ Jesus Existed 

#5​​ Jesus Grew Up in Galilee 

#6 ​Jesus Was a Jew Who Wore Torah on His Sleeve 

#7​​ Jesus Is "Immanuel." 

#8​​ Jesus is God and Man  

#9​​ Jesus is God  

#10​ Jesus is True Humanity  

#11​ Jesus Was Baptized by John the Baptist  

#12​ Jesus Taught About the Kingdom of God

#13​ Jesus is King 

#14 ​The Method of Jesus 

#15​ Jesus Mentored 12 Disciples  

#16​ Miracles Were Performed Through Jesus 

#17 ​Jesus Cast Out Demons  

#18​ Jesus Is After the Human Heart 

#19 ​Jesus Had a Preferential Option for "the Least of These"  

#20​ Jesus Restored Purity Outside the Sacrificial System 

#21​ Jesus Reinterpreted the Jewish Festivals in Terms of Himself 

#22​ Jesus Is Lord of the Sabbath  

#23 ​ Uncovering Jesus at Christmas 

#24​ Violent Night (An Alternative Christmas Story)

#25​ Christmas Day - Jesus Comes to Save Us from Our Distress  

#26​ Easter Week - Jesus Takes the Second Cup  

#27​ Jesus Bore Our Horror on a Cross  

#28​ Jesus Screams in the Absolute Darkness  

#29​ Jesus Was Raised from the Dead 

#30​ Jesus Will Return to Restore Heaven and Earth  

#31​ Jesus Instructed His Followers to Abide in Him  

APPENDIX 1​ Jesus Was a Minimalist

Thursday, November 14, 2024

Prayer with Thanksgiving Is an Anxiety-Buster

 


(Monroe County)

I have a list of things I am thankful for. Sometimes I print the list out, carry it with me, and pull it out to re-read it. Regularly doing this defeats my sometimes anxious heart.

J. P. Moreland writes about this in Loving God with Your Mind: Essays in Honor of J. P. Moreland 

"I practice the discipline of gratitude. Due to my heredity and upbringing, I have a predisposition to anxiety and depression. One way to avoid these is to train yourself to see the glass half full and not half empty, that is, to habitualize a positive, thankful approach to life. And the best way to do that involves a negative and a positive step. Negatively, learn to spot early on any catastrophizing or totalizing thoughts you have in which you take fears and so forth, blow them up out of proportion, and engage in fearful, negative self-talk. When you spot the negative thought, tell yourself that it isn’t true, that it is overstated, and seek to undermine the thought. Then, positively, turn to God in prayer and thank Him for, say, five to six things in your life, ranging from little things like the taste of coffee to large things like friends and family. I will do this around one hundred times a day, and by now, such expressions of gratitude have become a habit and they have colored my perception of life. The discipline of gratitude keeps one from becoming sour on life and is very, very life giving." (p. 225) 

In Philippians chapter four Paul instructs Jesus' followers to "not be anxious about anything." The Greek word for 'anxious' is one used in contexts of persecution. It's used in Matthew 10:19, where Jesus tells his disciples, "When they arrest you, do not be anxious about what to say or how to say it."
When Paul counsels the Philippian Christians to not be anxious, it's not like they are sitting down to a sumptuous Thanksgiving dinner in a peaceful, non-threatening land. He writes from prison. The context is: persecution. The Jesus-followers were suffering under opposition from their pagan neighbors, just like Paul and Silas had suffered when among them (Acts 16L19-24; Phil. 1:28-30). 

I know what worry and anxiety are like. I have, in some especially troubling times, felt consumed by them. So I ask - how realistic is it to be told, “Be anxious about nothing?” Paul’s answer, and his experiential reality, is found in his rich, ongoing prayer life. He writes: 

Do not be anxious about anything, 
but in every situation,
by prayer and petition,
with thanksgiving,
present your requests to God.

I have proof that this works, (following Henri Nouwen, in his book Gracias!). It's this.  When I don’t pray, when I don't count the many reasons I have to be thankful,  I am more easily filled with worry and fear. In the act of praying I enter into the caregiving of the Great Physician, who dials down the anxiety.

In everyday prayer-conferencing with God, I present my requests to him. I lay my burdens before him (See 1 Peter 5:7). I remember that I have a Father God who loves me, in whom I trust. Where there is trust, there is neither worry nor anxiety. A person with a thanks-filled, praying life, grows in trust and diminishes in anxiety. A praying person discovers, experientially, that thankful trust and anxiety are inversely proportionate. 

Paul writes that our prayers should be accompanied “with thanksgiving.” Ben Witherington comments on this. He writes,

“Paul believes there is much to be said for praying in the right spirit or frame of mind.” This is significant for the Roman Philippians, since pagan prayers did not include thanksgiving. Roman prayers were often fearful, bargaining prayers, not based on a relationship with some loving god.

Witherington adds: “Prayer with the attitude of thanksgiving is a stress-buster.”

John Wesley said that thanksgiving is the surest evidence of a soul free from anxiety.

J. P. Moreland counsels that the discipline of gratitude thwarts catastrophic thinking.

The antidote for worry and anxiety is: praying, with thanksgiving.

Wednesday, November 13, 2024

Jesus, Aborted

 


Philip Yancey writes:

Malcolm Muggeridge observed that in our day, with family-planning clinics offering convenient ways to correct “mistakes” that might disgrace a family name, “It is, in point of fact, extremely improbable, under existing conditions, that Jesus would have been permitted to be born at all. Mary’s pregnancy, in poor circumstances, and with the father unknown, would have been an obvious case for an abortion; and her talk of having conceived as a result of the intervention of the Holy Ghost would have pointed to the need for psychiatric treatment, and made the case for terminating her pregnancy even stronger. Thus our generation, needing a Savior more, perhaps, than any that has ever existed, would be too humane to allow one to be born.”

- Yancey, The Jesus I Never Knew, p. 32

Muggeridge quote from Jesus, the Man Who Lives, p. 19

Tuesday, November 12, 2024

Destined to Be Creatures of Thanksgiving

(Montana Rockies - Bozeman Pass)

The older I get, the more thankful I am becoming. Giving thanks is habitual. I often find myself saying, to myself, or out loud in a whisper, "Thank you God."

This happens several times a day. I think of something God has done for me, I see something he has given me, and reflexively the words rise up and come out of me.

I wake in the morning and say "Thank You" for waking in the morning and moving into a new day.

Dallas Willard, before he went to be with Jesus, was grateful. Gary Moon describes Willard's last words. 

"At 4:30 a.m. a nurse came in to turn Dallas in the bed. Her visit awakened [Dallas’ good friend Gary Black who was in the hospital room with him]. Moving Dallas awakened him too. Gary took Dallas’s hand. Dallas turned to him and told him to tell his loved ones how much he was blessed by them and how much he appreciated them. … Then, as Gary described, “In a voice clearer than I had heard in days, he leaned his head back slightly and with his eyes closed said, ‘Thank you.’” Gary did not feel that Dallas was talking to him, but to another presence that Dallas seemed to sense in the room. And those were the last words of Dallas Willard. “Thank you,” he said, to a very present and then finally visible to him God."
Gary Moon, Becoming Dallas Willard (IVP, 2018), page 240

Gratitude is moving from volition to embodiment. This is good. I am being prepared.

In the great throne room scene of Revelation 4, the awesome four living creatures are spotlighted, as they levitate around the throne of God. They give splendor to the One who sits on the throne. I am destined to do the same. I am being prepped for full-being God-glorification. The creatures give value to him who occupies the throne. I have the same destiny. I am being shaped into a God-honoring creature.

The four living creatures give thanks. 

An eternal outpouring of gratitude. 

I will one day join this mighty chorus! 

I am being mentored in this, by the Holy Spirit.

All I am meant to be is summed up in the great outpouring of glory, honor, and thanks to him who sits on the throne and lives for ever and ever. (Revelation 4:9)

This outpouring of magnification is too much for the twenty-four elders. The threefold amplification of the four living creatures drops the elders to their knees before the Lord, and they worship him. (Revelation 4:10)

Listen, all you who are in Christ! This is your transcendent destiny, which, in your current immanent embodiment, you are being schooled for. 

To be creatures who radiate glory, display honor, and sing thanksgiving to the God who reigns for ever and ever. To be, as C.S. Lewis once said, "everlasting splendors."

Thank you.

Sunday, November 10, 2024

Getting Into a Relationship Won't Heal the Wounded Heart

Linda and I, in Cancun (the sun was bright!)

Every heart has its wound. 

Some have multiple wounds. What can mend a broken heart? Not: getting into a relationship. Not: getting married. And not committing emotional adultery. (See here, and here, and here, and here.)

The person with an unhealed, bleeding heart brings their bloody mess into every relationship and, if the other gets close enough, they get bled on. Probably they are wounded too, and that's why, unknowingly, they are attracted to another hurting person. Misery loves company. People that bond in their misery form dysfunctional relationships.

Who a person is pre-maritally is who they are maritally. Unless, of course, they change. But just being in a relationship doesn't bring healing. Often the opposite happens. Old, oozing scars get re-opened. We cannot restore the souls of others.

God, on the other hand, is the Soul-Restorer (Psalm 23:3). Therefore, know and be known by him. I've seen this work, in my own life and others. In relationship counseling Linda and I attempt to bring people back to this.

After countless hours of counseling couples, pre-counseling them, post-marital counseling, and wedding-doing over the past forty-five years, we have seen marriages get restored. This happens when husband and wife stop viewing each other as either "savior" or "destroyer," individually look to God, cry out "Change me, God!", and respond to God's counsel.

Can God use a partner to mediate healing? Of course. But that's God, not the partner (who gets some credit for being a vessel of God, like a mug is to be affirmed for containing a great blend of coffee). God has mediated much healing to me through Linda, and she would say the same about me. But neither of us is The Great Healer. It is bad news relationship-wise if one is viewed that way, or views the other that way. What happens is big-time disappointment.

If you are hurting and lonely, even while married, the answer to your personal hell is not "I need to find someone!" Way too many mistakes are made at this point. Someone dates as a cure for their inner tragedy. Two unhealed people "fall in love." Never date or marry as relief for tragedy. Unless you want to experience hell on earth in a failing marriage, with children.

Every person's story is different, especially in the details. Here's part of mine. I was twenty-one years old. I had just become a Jesus-follower. I tried to get back into a previously failed dating relationship with a girl who was not a Jesus-follower. Eventually, she broke up with me. I thought, "I am messed up." God told me to take a year off from opposite-sex relationships and work on my own self. I did. It was a wonderful year! I thought, should God ever bring someone into my life, and should we get married, and should we have children, I want to be healed of a lot of stuff inside me.

Every person is healable. None of us have it all together, inwardly. Getting in a relationship is not the cure. Success in acquiring a life-partner does not equal a life of emotional flourishing.

In this regard Miroslav Volf, in A Public Faith: How Followers of Christ Should Serve the Common Good, writes about how "success" fails to bring lasting satisfaction. 

"God delivers us from the melancholy emptiness that sometimes accompanies our very success. We’ve achieved what we wanted—we have gotten the corner office—and we still feel empty. We are like a child who wants a toy and, when she gets it, plays with it for a day or two and then craves another. Melancholy inevitably sets in when we forget that we are made to find satisfaction in the infinite God and not in any finite object." (Kindle Locations 574-578)

We achieved what we wanted. The thrill dissipates. We still feel empty. Bill and Lynn Hybels wrote about this pattern in their still-excellent book on marriage, Fit To Be Tied.

The answer that heals was never meant to be found in another person.

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My book on prayer is Praying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God (May 2016)

My book on leadership is Leading the Presence-Driven Church