A friend asked this question: "Do you have any marriage counseling material that you can share with me?"
Here are some things to begin...
I use the FOCCUS materials for marital and premarital counseling.
startmarriageright.com - This is Gary Chapman's excellent website.
Things I Wish I'd Known Before I Got Married, by Gary Chapman
Linhda and I read this after almost 40 years of marriage and still enjoyed it.
Real Relationships: From Bad to Better and Good to Great, by Les and Leslie Parrott
Marital and premarital couples will benefit from this excellent book.
Hope-Focused Marriage Counseling: A Guide to Brief Therapy, by Everett Worthington
Linda and are reading this book together. It's more academic, and for marital counselors. Very good!
Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair, by Dave Carder
This is the book Linda and I recommend for people who have experienced this.
Caring enough to Confront: How to Understand and Express Your Deepest Feelings Toward Others, by David Augsburger
Linda and I have used this book so much in marital and relationship counseling that we should be getting royalties from it. On how to communicate in the midst of conflict.
The Forgiving Life: A Pathway to Overcoming Resentment and Creating a Legacy of Love, by Robert Enright
For Linda and I the key to a healthy marriage is: confession and forgiveness. In this book University of Wisconsin psychologist Enright shows us the relational power of forgiveness, in stories and empirical research.
The Mystery of Marriage, by Mike Mason
The most beautiful exaltation of marriage ever written?
Fit to Be Tied, by Bill and Lynn Hybels
Linda and I led a class on marriage using this book.
I Married You, and I Loved a Girl, by Walter Trobisch
These two beautiful books were recommended to Linda and I before we got married.
LINKS TO THINGS I'VE WRITTEN
Your Marriage Can Be Saved (Especially for Husbands)
A Wedding Is a Welding
How to Save Your Failing Marriage
28 Danger Signs for the Not Yet Married
Dealing With Anger In Relationships
Using Logic to Manage Anger in Relationships
Your Marriage Represents Christ and the Church
Want to Be Married? Prepare for Conflict!