Tuesday, December 20, 2016

The Day Your Reputation Died

Bolles Harbor, Lake Erie, Monroe

One of my struggles has been about what other people think of me. I have gone up and down, at times, with the evaluations of others, whether good or bad.

I believe I have a modicum of victory over this disease, but am not all the way home yet. I still have my moments of false security and insecurity.

I know where I need to land. It's on the foundation of my true identity, in Christ. When this is rock solid in my spirit, and I stand on the truth that I am fully loved no matter what, I can listen to the praise and blame of others without taking them on myself. In those times I am free, and love others more perfectly.

Scot McKnight writes:

"Sometimes the implication of listening to the voice of God is that we ruin our reputation in the public square. Loving God involves surrendering ourselves to God in heart, soul, mind, strength - and reputation. The minute we turn exclusively to the Lord to find our true identity is the day our reputation dies. We learn, as Thomas à Kempis puts it. that when you surrender your reputation, "you won't care a fig for the waggles of ten thousand tongues."" (McKnight, in Rediscovering Advent, 25)

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My recent book of prayer is: Praying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God.

Monday, December 19, 2016

My Sermon on The Lord's Prayer - No. 3



You can listen to my third sermon on the Lord's prayer HERE.

Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.


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Friday, December 16, 2016

Eight Books by Henri Nouwen in One Volume

















Eight of Henri Nouwen's books are now available in one volume - The Spiritual Life: Eight Essential Titles by Henri Nouwen.

Only $12.99 for your Kindle.

  • Intimacy
  • A Letter of Consolation
  • Letters to Marc About Jesus
  • The Living Reminder
  • Making All Things New
  • Our Greatest Gift
  • Way of the Heart
  • Gracias



The Spiritual Life: Eight Essential Titles by Henri Nouwen by [Nouwen, Henri J. M.]


Thursday, December 15, 2016

Looking for a Study Bible?



The only Study Bible to get is: NIV Cultural Backgrounds Study Bible, edited by Craig Keener and John Walton.

I've been using it for a month now. It is brilliant!

And...



“How I wish someone had put a book like this into my hands 50 years ago.” - N.T. Wright, Research Professor of New Testament and Early Christianity, University of St. Andrews, Scotland

“I cannot recommend a study Bible any more than this one: Five stars!” - Scot McKnight, Julius R. Mantey Professor of New Testament, Northern Seminary

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My recent book is Praying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God.

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

"Viability" Is Irrelevant to Personhood (and Abortion)

Monroe County (Ford pickup emerging from the womb)

On Tuesday, Ohio Governor John Kasich signed into law a bill that would ban the procedure of abortion at 20 weeks after fertilization. The New York Times says: “The new law makes no exception for rape or incest and, like the heartbeat bill, is part of a dangerous nationwide effort to roll back abortion rights that has gained momentum with Donald Trump’s election.” ("Rolling Back Abortion Rights After Donald Trump's Election")

“Abortion rights” is a euphemism for “kill an inborn person.” The new Ohio law is part of an effort to roll back the right to kill someone.

I and many others are against abortion precisely because we believe the inborn entity is a person, and that all persons have the right to life. To conclude that the inborn entity is a person obviates exceptions for rape or incest. Rape and incest are horrors. But we don’t murder persons who are innocent on account of these conditions.

Unfortunately, the Ohio bill does not go far enough. The conceptus-embryo-fetus will have to make it past 20 weeks to guarantee survival.

“The Supreme Court has ruled that states cannot ban abortion before viability, which most experts put around 24 weeks.” (Ib.) But “viability” is irrelevant if the inborn entity is a person (using, e.g., a substance view of personhood). Viability does not change the nature of the fetus so that a non-person turns into a person. Viability measures medical technology, not one’s personhood or humanity.

The viability criterion seems to be arbitrary, therefore irrelevant to the question of whether the unborn is fully human. The “viability criterion” only tells us when some persons in our culture want to accept the personhood of the unborn. I have no moral obligation to accept someone else's category mistake of defining "person" technologically, rather than philosophically and/or religiously.

“In Ohio there’s “a new sense of outrage” and a growing sense of urgency in fighting for reproductive rights.” There’s another euphemism – “reproductive rights.” Again, this means “the right to kill inborn persons.”
I, and many others in our country, have long had a sense of outrage at the mass slaughter of inborn children. Now, perhaps, the time is coming when this horror will be abolished, and inborn children will have an opportunity to live beginning at conception.

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My recent book is Praying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God.

Overcoming Spiritual Self-Blindness

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The moon, 200,000 miles above my house

I once was invited to speak to medical students at Michigan State University's School of Human Medicine. I talked with some of them after my presentation. The subject of self-evaluation came up. The students told me they were advised not to diagnose themselves when experiencing troubling symptoms. They should get an outside evaluation from another physician. The reason for this is that it is hard to see clearly when you are self-involved. This is also why you and I should, in general, stay off the internet when we are symptomatic.

The same principle holds, generally, in the spiritual and moral life. In Psalm 19:12 the psalmist writes, Who can discern their own errors? The answer is: no one, or at least, not many.

We are notoriously blind when it comes to our own spiritual self. One symptom of spiritual self-blindness is going up and down with the opinions of people, about you. Both self-grandiosity and self-hatred indicate a lack of self-revelation.

The remedies for this are:

1. Immerse yourself in the Jesus community. Be part of a small, home group fellowship. Over the years I have learned much about myself in small group contexts.

2. Have a spiritual mentor. Connect with someone who cares for you and loves you enough to tell the truth, as they discern it, about you.

3. Abide in Christ, and as part of that abiding pray, Search me, O God, and know my heart. I have found that, as I do this, God reveals the truth about me, either immediately by His Spirit, or mediately by His Spirit through people and circumstances.

When we come to see more truth about who we really are, it is all accompanied by God's perfect love, even when the truth is a hard one. This is all redemptive, all part of the rescue of us.

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My recent book is Praying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God.

Tuesday, December 13, 2016

My Sermon on The Lord's Prayer - No. 2

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Redeemer sanctuary

You can listen to my second sermon on The Lord's Prayer HERE.

Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth, as it is in heaven.

The Marriage Is More Important Than the Wedding

Monroe County

I have done many weddings, and seen fewer marriages. The wedding gets all the hype and attention, but the marriage is more important. Many weddings are little more than a selfie; a marriage is meant to be a lifelong selfless.

Eugene Peterson writes:

"When I talk with people who come to me in preparation for marriage I often say, “Weddings are easy; marriages are difficult.” The couple wants to plan a wedding; I want to plan a marriage.

They want to know where the bridesmaids will stand; I want to develop a plan for forgiveness. They want to discuss the music of the wedding; I want to talk about the emotions of the marriage.

I can do a wedding in twenty minutes with my eyes shut; a marriage takes year after year after year of alert, wide-eyed attention.

Weddings are important. They are beautiful; they are impressive; they are emotional; sometimes they are expensive. We weep at weddings and we laugh at weddings. We take care to be at the right place at the right time and say the right words. Where people stand is important. The way people dress is significant. Every detail— this flower, that candle— is memorable. All the same, weddings are easy. But marriages are complex and difficult.

In marriage we work out in every detail of life the promises and commitments spoken at the wedding.

In marriage we develop the long and rich life of faithful love that the wedding announces.

The event of the wedding without the life of marriage doesn’t amount to much. It hardly matters if the man and woman dress up in their wedding clothes and re-enact the ceremony every anniversary and say “I’m married, I’m married, I’m married” if there is no daily love shared, if there is no continuing tenderness, no attentive listening, no inventive giving, no creative blessing.

- Peterson, Eugene H., Run with the Horses: The Quest for Life at Its Best,.Kindle Locations 852-863)

Monday, December 12, 2016

Marriage Takes Work

Our front yard

I began playing guitar at age five. I took lessons in a guitar studio in Rockford, Illinois. I was too small for an acoustic guitar (I don't think they had mini-guitars at the time). So, I started off on slide guitar.

I took lessons for two years. My parents, and my instructor, agreed I should stop. I did not want to practice, taking lessons was a waste of everyone's time. Lessons don't do a thing if you don't apply them. 

When I was thirteen I wanted to play electric guitar. I bought a cheap guitar and began to practice. I wanted to play like the guitarists I heard on the radio. Desire always leads to discipline. I desired, therefore I worked hard at learning to play guitar.

Excellence at anything requires commitment. It's the same with marriage. If a person wants an excellent marriage they have to be intentional, and work at it.

One of the things Linda and I have done since we got married is have a regular Friday night date. Only weddings and funerals interrupt this. Plus, we had read many books on marriage, listened to audio teachings, attended marriage conferences, and led them. Even if a particular book is not that great, the simple act of discussing marital matters is marriage strengthening.

Developing a strong marriage takes a lifetime of time, focus, and investment. It's like mastering a foreign language: you either use it or lose it. Marriages erode over time if not attended to. Do not expect your marriage to stay the same if you neglect it.

Here are some books that have helped us along the way. Pick one and read it together. Discuss. Engage in continuing marital education. Don't expect instant results. Be gardeners who till the soil, plant the seeds, water the garden of your marriage, and trust God for growth.

Gary Chapman, The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts.

Gary Chapman, Now You're Speaking My Language: Honest Communication and Deeper Intimacy for a Stronger Marriage.

Bill and Lynn  Hybels, Fit to Be Tied: Making Marriage Last a Lifetime.

Walter Trobisch, I Married You.

Mike Mason, The Mystery of Marriage. 

Paul Tournier, To Understand Each Other


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My recent book is Praying: Reflections on 40 Years of Solitary Conversations with God.

Sunday, December 11, 2016

Sin as False Orientation, and Its Cure

Monroe county


Whatever happened to "sin?" 

If you use the word “sin” in public, some people will view you as a medieval religious crazy person. Like: "Justin Bieber sinned a few days ago." Say that and you'll get accused of being "judgmental."

To which I respond: Chill out, people. “Sin” is just a word. It refers to something very alive and real.

  •  “Sin” is a word that refers to behaviors and actions that create alienation and isolation.
  • “Sin” is a word that refers to choices and non-choices that cause emotions of anger and vengeance and sadness and bitterness and bring tears and loss and grief and cries for justice and so on and on and on…
  • If sin wasn’t about something very real and very dangerous and very alienating, half the movies that are made would not be made, and innumerable tweets would be meaningless.
  • “Sin” is a big-time reality word. There are not a lot of things more real than the reality of “sin."
  • The English word “sin” is just an ancient word that refers to a reality that is still with us. 
  • Everyone does it. Everyone has it. If you don't have it then you can start throwing stones at the rest of us.
Sin is only meaningful if it has a reference point. The reality of sin evokes the question "In reference to what?" "Sin" falls short of something. Sin doesn't measure up. If there's no reference point then moral outrage is absurd, and "sin" doesn't exist.

Everyone - me and you and you-know-who - has messed up and landed short of the Reference Point. 

Sin, writes Francis Spufford, is the Human Propensity to Mess things Up (HPtMtU; except that Spufford uses another word for 'screw'). 

"For us, it refers to something much more like the human tendency, the human propensity, to [mess] up. Or let’s add one more word: the human propensity to [mess] things up, because what we’re talking about here is not just our tendency to lurch and stumble and screw up by accident, our passive role as agents of entropy. It’s our active inclination to break stuff, “stuff ” here including moods, promises, relationships we care about, and our own well-being and other people’s, as well as material objects whose high gloss positively seems to invite a big fat scratch. Now, I hope, we’re on common ground. In the end, almost everyone recognizes this as one of the truths about themselves."
- Spufford. Unapologetic: Why, Despite Everything, Christianity Can Still Make Surprising Emotional Sense, Kindle Locations 408-413)

When Jesus-followers talk about "sin," it's this sort of thing that we mean. It's a universal human condition, "unless you're someone with a very high threshold of obliviousness." You may not like the word sin. In the meantime, sin marches on.

Here's an example of "sin," from today's New York Times:  

"A bomb ripped through a section reserved for women at Cairo’s main Coptic cathedral during Sunday morning Mass, killing at least 25 people and wounding 49, mostly women and children, Egyptian state media said.
The attack was the deadliest against Egypt’s Christian minority in years. Video from the blast site circulating on social media showed blood-smeared floors and shattered pews among the marble pillars at St. Mark’s Cathedral, the seat of Egypt’s Orthodox Christian church."

This provides an ostensive definition of "sin": By "sin" I mean... (while pointing to that horrific event).

Examples are everywhere and easy to find. You don't have to look far or read about them, or see and experience them for yourself. To find sin up close and personal, look no further than your own self. Spufford writes:

"For most of us the point eventually arrives when, at least for an hour or a day or a season, we find we have to take notice of our HPtMtU. Our appointment with realization often comes at one of the classic moments of adult failure: when a marriage ends, when a career stalls or crumbles, when a relationship fades away with a child seen only on Saturdays, when the supposedly recreational coke habit turns out to be exercising veto powers over every other hope and dream. It need not be dramatic, though. It can equally well just be the drifting into place of one more pleasant, indistinguishable little atom of wasted time, one more morning like all the others, which quietly discloses you to yourself." (Kindle Locations 415-420)

The Christian idea of "sin" is that it is a universal human condition. (All the major world religions believe this, BTW. They just disagree on the cure.) "Sin" is just the particuar word that refers to this universal condition.

Literally, in Greek, to sin is to "miss the mark." The idea of sin is that humanity is off target, spot off. The condition is there; you can refer to it by whatever word you want.

"You can put it as Freud did, and say that there are unconscious processes which resist and subvert conscious intentions. You can think of it in terms of evolutionary biology, in which case one of the best expressions of it is the geneticist Bill Hamilton’s wonderful description of the human animal as “an ambassador sent forth by an unstable coalition.” Or you can quote St Paul: “What I would not, that I do. What I would, that I do not.” Wherever the line is drawn between good and evil, between acceptable and unacceptable, between kind and cruel, between clean and dirty, we’re always going to be voting on both sides of it, despite ourselves. Not all of us, on every subject, all the time, of course; but all of us on some subject or other some of the time. 

And this is a state of affairs in the face of which we are, for the most part, currently clueless, toolless, committed to alarmed denial rather than to any more useful or hopeful response."
- Ib., Kindle Locations 472-479

This means me. And you. 

The Human Propensity to Mess Things Up is in here, in the heart. Without persons like you and I sin would not even exist.

And it is after your heart. In Genesis 4:7 God warns an angry Cain: “Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast? 7 If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.

Here "sin" is personified. "Sin" functions like a personal agent who wants to infect you with its disease so as to manipulate and control you. (Think of "Gollum" in "The Lord of the Rings.)

These ancient words are so relevant! I am constantly in touch with drug, alcohol, porn, or whatever addicts, who contact me in hopes of rescue. And I am in constant contact with my own self, as well.

When sin takes up residence in a human heart this is called "addiction." It gets "attached" to you (from the French word for sin, attaché ).  Addiction (sin) is a "beast." ("Treating the Beast of Addiction") It wants to have you. When it pierces its talons into your skin it digs deep, into heart and mind and soul. Sin captivates, longing to capture your soul.

When this happens, the fun is over.

For a long time.

For some, for a lifetime.

It is easy to empirically verify the existence of sin. "Empirical verifiability" means this: a statement is true (= a certain state of affairs obtains) if that statement is verifiable in principle via the five senses. (Analytic statements, such as A is A, are true analytically; i.e., the predicated state of affairs is contained in the subject.)

Alvin Plantinga, in 
Knowledge and Christian Belief, writes: "G. K. Chesterton once remarked that of all the doctrines of Christianity, the doctrine of original sin has the strongest claim to "empirical verifiability."" (K1179) Crudely, this means: open your senses and behold how screwed up humanity is.

Plantinga writes: "It has been abundantly verified in the wars, cruelty, and general hatefulness that have characterized human history from its very inception to the present. Indeed, no century has seen more organized hatred, contempt, and cruelty than the late and unlamented twentieth; and none has seen it on as grand a scale." (Ib., K1188)

Add to this people who lived self-reflective lives and have, upon introspection, discovered "seeds of destruction" and "violence within." (Like Augustine, e.g., in his Confessions.) I have. And you would see the same in you, if you routinely subjected yourself to self-examination.

Is religion the cause of sin in the world? No. Religion identifies it, and proposes a cure.

Has our world evolved beyond the sin disease? No. It's worth noting that the cause of most human suffering due to sin has been perpetrated, at least in the 20th century, by atheists. As Plantinga writes elsewhere:

"Of course the world’s religions do indeed have much to repent; still (as has often been pointed out) the suffering, death, and havoc attributable to religious belief and practice pales into utter insignificance beside that due to the atheistic and secular ideologies of the twentieth century alone." (Plantinga,
Where the Conflict Really Lies: Science, Religion, and Naturalism . Oxford University Press. Kindle Location 104.)

Thus we can be done with the sophomoric, unstudied idea that sin is the special province of religious people. And we can be rid of the unstudied idea that talking about sin is "old-fashioned" and archaic.

If sin is the human problem, what is the cure? I have some former university students who are scientists researching a cure for cancer. In order to find a cure they must first understand the disease. The more they understand what makes the disease tick, the greater they can understand what could be done to stop it.

The Jesus-claim is that sin is primarily a false orientation of the heart. The biblical metaphorical idea of the human "heart" is that it concerns our orientation, our basic inclination, what we love, what captivates us, what we are captured by, what we most worship in life. Sin is therefore understood as false orientation. Which means:

The cure for sin is reorientation, re-captivation. This explains what the cross of Christ is for, and why it is effective. As Paul writes in Romans 6:13: 

13 Do not offer any part of yourself to sin as an instrument of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer every part of yourself to him as an instrument of righteousness.

New Testament scholar Scot McKnight writes:

"On the cross, God gave his Son for our salvation, atoning for our sins and restoring our relationship with him. But this is only one aspect of God's work on the cross. Salvation is ultimately about deliverance—from our own sins and from sin in general—so that we can be conformed into the image of Christ." (McKnight is explaining Dallas Willard's theology of the cross.)

On the cross sin was defeated. This established a new possibility for sinful persons. Since sin causes a breach in relationship, Christ's death opened the way (the temple "curtain was torn") into God's very presence. Now, the human heart can decide to orient itself towards Christ. As Romans says, we can "offer every part" of our heart to him.

This is not about some kind of "sin management." It is about relationship orientation, made possible by Christ's death on the cross. The cross allows for a greater, more intimate captivity with God. Now I can become a "slave of Christ."

This is the Jesus-answer to the sin disease and its cure. And, beyond that in this life, we experience ongoing transformation of the human heart into greater and greater Christlikeness and freedom. (Romans 12:1-2; Galatians 4:19)